One of my choir students wrote on the blog a few days ago that
‘the will of God will never take you where the grace of God cannot protect you’.
A bit tougher to take this afternoon but still words to try and live by……..
The CT scan results came back worse than we hoped. The cancer on Marisa’s liver has increased in size and they also found cancer in her lungs.
As you can imagine this is the last thing we wanted to hear. Because plan A didn’t work, Marisa is now going to plan B. She is going to undergo more chemo but in a totally different form than the last couple of months. She is going to have the chemo all in the hospital once every three weeks with no chemo at home. We are hoping that her body will react positively to this new chemo.
Thanks to our family, friends and people that are riding this wave with us….hold on…
Love Mendelt
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March 8, 2007 at 8:50 pm
Trevor Westerhoff
Praying you guys can find new reserves of strength…
Love you both,
Trevor
March 8, 2007 at 9:22 pm
Lauren Heinen
I am like many others who you do not know, yet faithfully read your blog and keep you in my prayers. I stumbled across your blog through a friend’s blog and have been checking it for a couple months. I cannot imagine the many emotions that must be running through your heads right now after hearing this news; my heart breaks for you.
You are being prayed for from my dorm in Kelowna BC and I think about you and your family many times each day. I look at the extreme amount of support from your friends, family, and people you do not even know, and realize that you are in the deepest thoughts of many people. I cry out to our Heavenly Father, the Great Physician, when I read your story and think about what you are going through.
May you continue to see joy through your children and find support from eachother as well as in our Father in Heaven. I pray that in a time such as this, you will find joy in simple things that our Father will make known to you.
Praying from BC
Lauren
March 8, 2007 at 9:29 pm
Amber Vanderhout
Hi Marissa and Mendalt.
We sang this song at Youth the other night and it made me think of you… hope it brings you some comfort
You Never Let Go (Even Though I Walk)
Even though I walk
through the valley of the shadow of death,
Your perfect love is casting out fear.
And even when I’m caught
in the middle of the storms of this life,
I won’t turn back, I know You are near.
And I will fear no ev – il,
For my God is wi – th me.
And if my God is wi – th me,
Whom then shall I fear?
Whom then shall I fear?
Oh no, You never let go,
Through the calm and through the storm
Oh no, You never let go,
In every high and every low
O no, You never let go
Lord, You never let go of me.
And I can see a light
that is coming for the heart that holds on
A glorious light beyond all compare.
And there will be an end
to these troubles, But until that day comes,
We’ll live to know You here on the earth.
Yes, I can see a light that is coming
for the heart that holds on,
And there will be an end to these troubles,
but until that day comes,
Still I will praise You,
still I will praise You.
Your always in my prayers
Stay strong
Amber
March 8, 2007 at 9:30 pm
Sylvia DeWeerd
I will continue to fervently pray for you guys.
March 8, 2007 at 9:30 pm
Carlena Schipper
M, M and family,
We are praying for you all daily! My tears are flowing right now, and it breaks my heart to read of the pain that you are going through with these dissappointing results. We put our trust in God, that what He is putting you all through, is not more than you can handle.
I must say that it is so nice to read the comments from others, and to see that you have such a strong prayer network and such wonderful friends and family surrounding you all. May you recieve strength from this all during this difficult time.
Love and Prayers, Ryan, Carlena and Laryssa
March 8, 2007 at 9:42 pm
justin and rachel
We are devastated by the results. we love you both so much. And we struggle to know what to say. We believe that the spirit groans on your behalf to the father…. and we pray fervently that the new treatment will bring new hope.
j and r.
March 8, 2007 at 9:49 pm
Julie Vos
Dear Marisa and Mendelt,
My name is Julie Vos and I am a friend of Jenn Dreise. Jenn and I work together on our church nursery committee and our boys, Owen and Daniel are friends. We get together sometimes for playdates as the boys share a love for tractors and trains!
Jenn told me a while ago about your fight against cancer as well as the blog you have created. I regularly read your entries and the comments from your family and friends. I often read it before I go to bed at night, share the news with my husband, Henry and then pray for you before we go to sleep.
Your faith in God has been a source of inspiration to me. I am so thankful that you are trusting in God to lead you and sustain you in this time of great trial. I can only imagine how difficult it is for you. We pray that you will continue to see God each day, each moment, each hour.
When I try to comprehend the love of God, I think about how much I love our children. That gives me a small glimpse of how much God loves us! Marisa and Mendelt, God loves you! He is right there beside you – you are not alone!
My prayer today is that you will continue to feel the power of God’s love!
Love,
Julie
March 8, 2007 at 9:58 pm
Rose Tamming
So sorry, guys…this news really sucks (I really don’t like that word, but it surely feels like the most appropriate one at the moment)
Here’s just a bit of a King Jehoshaphat prayer…
” ..we have no power to face this vast enemy that is attacking us. We do not know what to do but our eyes are upon You. The battle is not ours, but Yours, Lord. We will go out to face the enemy, and You will be with us.” (2 Chronicles 20)…and so onward ho…again…Plan B. Stay strong, guys!!!
Praying for more hope and peace than ever…and that you will both sleep well tonight…
Holding on…
Love, Rose
March 8, 2007 at 10:19 pm
Grace Dekker
Psalm 34:17-22:
17 The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them;
he delivers them from all their troubles.
18 The LORD is close to the brokenhearted
and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
19 A righteous man may have many troubles,
but the LORD delivers him from them all;
20 he protects all his bones,
not one of them will be broken.
I pray that you both take strength from this passage. I thought about you when I read it… have a good day.
Love Grace
March 8, 2007 at 10:20 pm
Lisa VanderKlippe
Hi Mr. Hoekstra, Marisa, and kids
I don’t really know what to say so I’m just sending lots of love, hope, and strength your way. you guys are amazing. Lisa VK
March 8, 2007 at 10:21 pm
Rachel Wiersma
Always, always praying for you guys. Stay Strong.
Rachel
March 8, 2007 at 10:25 pm
John & Henri
Marisa and Mendelt,
That is tough news. Lets hope and pray that Plan B produces better results.
We love you guys.
John, Henri and kids
March 8, 2007 at 10:31 pm
Steve and Julia Kooy
We are at such a loss for words. So, we are on our knees praying for a miracle and for healing and for strength. And we know that our God is faithful and His mercies are new every morning. I’m sure it’s hard to see right now with all the dark clouds and discouraging CT results. Cancer really does suck, doesn’t it? Thinking of you both, and praying without ceasing,
Steve and Julia
March 8, 2007 at 10:34 pm
Fred and Doreen
Mendelt and Marisa,
Talking to you today Mendelt I was encouraged and excited for the two of you along with your beautiful kids to have these days once again without the treatments. Then to read this post was an incredible deflation for us, we can’t imagine what it was like for you. Just craving for something positive. We are constantly keeping you guys in our prayers and upholding your family to Christ.
Mendelt, your love for Marisa and your children is so evident at school and I admire you for that. — Nice desktop pic. of your kids feet!! Marisa, we pray persistently and fervently for positive news and the hands of God to move powerfully in your body so you can be, as you so desire, an energetic, caring mother for your kids.
May GOD hold you extra close tonight.
Fred, Doreen and Fam.
March 8, 2007 at 10:39 pm
Esther dG
prayers abound
Esther
March 8, 2007 at 10:41 pm
Esther dG
prayers abound. . .
Esther
March 8, 2007 at 10:46 pm
Margaret
Dear Marisa and Mendelt
Thinking about you,
crying with you ,
bringing you before the throne of grace.
Love you lots
Marg
March 8, 2007 at 10:54 pm
Miriam Bauer
Mendelt and Marissa,
Our prayers continue for you and your family. I would like to send words of encouragement from Isaiah 43.
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you.
When you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you.
When you walk through the fire, you shall not be burnt.
For I am the Lord your God
Do not be afraid, for I am with you.
Specifically praying that Plan B will be B meaning BEST!
Love Miriam
March 9, 2007 at 12:39 am
Sam & Leona Iriarte
Dear Mendelt & Marisa,
Words cannot express how we feel. We are sorry for not writing earlier, I have read through the blogs/posts regularly and have often thought of and prayed for you & your family and have often wanted to write, but did not know what to write. I feel lifted up that in the midst of this trial-for lack of a better word, that you have soo much faith. You are a great witness to our Lord Jesus Christ. It is truly amazing to see all the support through this blog. Our church, Smithville CRC prays for you, as well as coffee break and our small group.
Love Sam & Leona
March 9, 2007 at 3:55 am
mendelt en willy tillema
Dear Marisa, dear Mendelt, dear family,
We can imagine how your feelings are deeply touched by the words, explaining the CT scan results. The impact must be very hard and will be difficult to go through.
We feel so sad for all off you.
Wishing and hoping indeed that Marisa’s body will react positively to this new chemo.
A lot of strenght for every moments during these first difficult days and also during the days for the next period.
Try going on and ,if possible, stay on keeping courage.
Dear greetings,
Mendelt en Willy
March 9, 2007 at 6:32 am
Mem Hoekstra
Dearest children,
Don’t be afraid of the storm, you already know how to sail your boat.
Continue to keep your eyes on the Lord of Life, who died for you.
Mem
March 9, 2007 at 8:23 am
Neeke de Boer
Dear Mendelt and Marisa,
I feel so sorry for you. I wish I could do something to help… too bad Marisa has to do it all by herself. I am convinced Meldelt and your families and friends will do everything they can to support you, Marisa. I hope and pray it will give you enough strength to go on with you battle.
We love you!
Neeke & family
March 9, 2007 at 8:24 am
Julia van Staalduinen
We love you and continue to lift up before our God of all comfort.
May you continue to find hope and strength in your faith, family and friends.
Peace, love and prayers,
Julia, Duane and kids
March 9, 2007 at 8:37 am
Harriett Draaistra
Hi Marisa and Mendelt: We continue to pray for you and your family. I pray that you will feel God’s arms strong around you, supporting comforting, giving strength for each new day. We continue to believe that all things are possible through him!
March 9, 2007 at 8:39 am
Joan
Awwwww, Mendelt,Marisa. My heart literally sank this morning as I read your recent post. But then I was reminded, “Those who wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength, they will mount up on wings as eagles”. As you wait for the Lord to restore Marisa to complete health, may you feel those eagle wings firmly beneath you. He promises to hear us, carry us, as we cry out to him. Know that there are literally hundreds of people interceding on your behalf. HEAR OUR PRAYER OH LORD!! May God give you much strength and renewed hope.
Love, Joan
March 9, 2007 at 8:57 am
Dee
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Marisa, Mendelt, sweet little ones))))))))))))))))))))))))
Just want to let you know I love you, pray for you and cry for you. I send a big hug to all of you… if I could I would embrace you like our Father would embrace us with his love, gentelness, strenghth and mercy. I pray the Lord strengthens your whole being.
Love Dee ****
March 9, 2007 at 9:00 am
Ann
Marisa & Mendelt
You don’t know me. My cousin Joanne told me about you and gave me the link to your blog. (She teaches with Klaas)
I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers. I have walked the road that Mendelt is walking – my spouse was diagnosed with a very agressive cancer. It is a difficult road to walk although not as difficult as the road Marisa is walking.
I pray that God will continue to accompany you on this road, and will give you the strength and peace you need to get through each day.
I said to Joanne that I rarely use the word hate, because it is too strong a word – but I HATE cancer. It is a horrible disease, and the cure is also horrible to endure. Keep fighting! And know that there are many of us known and unknown to you who are praying for you and your family.
I can see by reading your blog that you are people of faith, a strong faith and love for God. Know that God loves you too – no matter what the world throws your way.
blessings,
Ann
March 9, 2007 at 9:06 am
trinda
May the miracle and mystery of the Name of Jesus be revealed to you both these days.
March 9, 2007 at 9:45 am
Marge & Ted Van Geest
This is not the result we have all been praying for, and you must feel so discouraged right now. But our God is merciful, and He will not allow you to go through this alone. Our prayers for strenth, healing and patience will continue to go up for you all.
Ted and Marge
March 9, 2007 at 9:59 am
Leanne Vanderkolk
Hello Mendelt and Marisa and family –
I am shocked to read your posting today. I too am at a loss for words – it’s hard to see my computer screen right now through the tears streaming down my face. I guess this means that we have to be more diligent in our prayers for your family. Just know that an entire army of supporters are rallying for you in this fight. We all love you and think about you each and every day.
Leanne and Joe and Carter
March 9, 2007 at 10:19 am
marlene langendoen
We are so sorry to hear this news. We lift you up before the throne of our Lord and pray for renewed hope and courage. Our thoughts are also with your doctors, that they will see clearly the path of medication to lead you to the road of recovery.
In our thoughts and prayers,
Stan and Marlene Langendoen and family
March 9, 2007 at 10:25 am
Kathryn Ringelberg
Ms Vanderveen,
i have been praying for you alot lately
sometimes i listen to the choir cd and i hear you playing the piano and wish that things were like that again, but God has a plan and it is better than what we can even dream of!
i will keep you in my prayers,
♥kathryn
March 9, 2007 at 10:56 am
Gina VandenDool
My heart is really hurting for you.
Trust God – he is still taking care of you.
Gina
March 9, 2007 at 11:15 am
Julie Oosterloo-Pilling
What do you say in the face of discouraging words?
My soul and heart cry out to Him who knows the battle that is being fought in your body and in your soul.
Prayers for renewed strength and peace for the days ahead.
With much love,
Jules
March 9, 2007 at 11:18 am
The Pols family
Hey guys. After reading that, I gasped and said, “no!” It’s too discouraging to hear, and makes my heart long to cry out to God – and that I will. All of us wanted to hear a positive result, not this. That being said, it doesn’t change the fact that our lives are not our own and God is in control! So, we will keep praying that His grace will abound and that He will work a miracle in you Marisa, that you might be cured from this dreadful disease.
Love and prayers continually,
and a big bear hug too,
Cheryl
March 9, 2007 at 11:52 am
Betty
Marisa and Mendolt:
The storm is truly mounting .. but …Remember that Jesus is in the boat with you. Prayong that He will still the storm for you and give you His peace!
March 9, 2007 at 12:18 pm
Mark & Laura Bassie
We will continue to fall our knees in prayer for you both and your kids. May Christ’s healing power be poured out within you and over you, Marisa.
Sister let me be your servant, let me be as Christ to you
I pray that I might have the grace to let you be my servant too.
I will hold the Christ light for you in the night time of your fear
I will hold my hand out to you, speak the peace you long to hear.
I will weep when you are weeping, when you laugh, I’ll laugh with you;
I will share your joy and sorrow, til we’ve seen this journey through.
We are pilgrims on the journey, we are travellers on the road;
We are here to help each other walk the mile and bear the load.
Sister, let us all be your servants . . . .
Unending peace and courage to you.
Love
The Bassie Family xoxo
March 9, 2007 at 12:35 pm
Mary Teeuwsen
Hello Hoekstra Family.
You don’t know me but my daughter Amy is in choir, and my husband Bill taught Mendelt floor hockey in St Catarines many years ago. I read your blog faithfully. I have no words to tell you how we feel for you both. I just wanted to tell you that you are in our thoughts and prayers regularly. May the Lord of all stength bless you and keep you. Your blod really is an inspiration to us all. Yours in Christ. Mary
March 9, 2007 at 12:40 pm
Frances
Promise (by St. Augustine)
God of life, there are days when the burdens we carry chafe our shoulders and wear us down; when the road seems dreary and endless, the skies gray and threatening; when our lives have no music in them and our hearts are lonely, and our souls have lost their courage. Flood the path with light, we beseech You; turn our eyes to where the skies are full of promise.
Prayers abounding here, too. Love, Frances
March 9, 2007 at 12:58 pm
Dick en Anky Tillema
Dear Marisa and Mendelt,
We are crying with you, but please, keep the courage …….. always!
Dick en Anky
March 9, 2007 at 1:18 pm
Sarah Vanderkooy
Becuase there are no words, all I can say is I’m contuning to pray…..
Psalm 91 (vs 11, 12, 14, 15)
For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; they will lift you (Marisa, Mendelt, Vanderveens, Hoekstras) up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone Becuase He/She (Mendelt/Marisa) loves me, says the Lord, I will rescue them. I will protect them for they acknowledge my name. They will call up on me and I will answer them. I will be with them in trouble, I will deliver them and honor them
I will claim these verses on your behalf….knowing you are loved and protected by a BIG God.
~Sarah
March 9, 2007 at 1:20 pm
David Wonder
I am heart broken; but, I will not let the pain prevent me from praying for you Marisa, Mendelt and your precious little ones.
I wish my arms were big enough to embrace you all.
Love David
March 9, 2007 at 1:23 pm
Angela & Dennis Sluys
We hold you dearly in our prayers.
Dennis and Angela
March 9, 2007 at 2:01 pm
Diane Bakker
Marisa & Mendelt
Stunned is the only word I can find……..
We weep with you and continue to lift you up to the great Physician.
May you find solace and comfort in Him.
love Diane & Ralph
March 9, 2007 at 2:03 pm
Wenda en Harry Haasjes
Dear Mendelt and Marisa,
We all wished to hear better news from you! Praying for all the strength you need, for healing and for carrying (I don’t know if this is correct english, but it is hard to find words, even in dutch).
You are in our thoughts and in our prayers,
Hoping for better news,
Love, Wenda and Harry
March 9, 2007 at 2:42 pm
Robyn Bezuyen
With this news, I could not not comment. Just to remember that our God has great big shoulders – to cry on, to rail against and to grab a hold of and not let go. He is strong when we are weak – so be weak sometimes. When my girls get an ouchie I will sometimes say “THAT HURTS!!!” At first they look at me like I am crazy, but when they try yelling “THAT HURTS!!!!” over and over again eventually they start to smile. It doesn’t fix anything BUT it does make them start to smile! Maybe, around your dinner table you can sudenly yell “THAT HURTS!!!” and get a round going with your little ones and see if you can find your smiles again!
Praying for you daily,
The Bezuyens
Terry Robyn Katryna Emily and Mackenzie
March 9, 2007 at 3:53 pm
Bryan and Susanne Zietsma
Well, this is a hard post to comment on…we are praying for you…may God comfort you and give you hope. Much love is being sent to you all,
Bryan and Susanne
March 9, 2007 at 4:02 pm
Harold & Robin
We share your disappointment. We are praying God’s grace will sustain you and your family and are confident that God is caring for you through the ups and downs of your journey.
with best wishes,
Harold
March 9, 2007 at 5:24 pm
Susanne
Dearest Marisa and Mendelt,
My heart aches for you all. There are no words and so I pray.
with all our love and prayers,
The Wood family
March 9, 2007 at 5:34 pm
Linda Smith
This is devastating news. I will pray for God’s intervention and healing. You will be ever present in my thoughts and prayers. Linda
March 9, 2007 at 5:42 pm
Victoria and Rebecca
Mendelt and Marisa
You are in our thoughts and prayers daily. We hope you will feel God’s hand around you in this time of your life.
Sending you comfort and peace.
Love from,
Rebecca Lindeboom and Victoria Vanderstoep
March 9, 2007 at 6:17 pm
Samantha Aantjes
As Mr.Hoekstra can attest, there was no shortage of tears this morning in choir. After everything is said, it still astounds me that you have such great faith. Your love for each other and your children is evident in the way Mr.Hoekstra speaks of you. And even though we have never met, I feel a connection with you because of the beautiful things he says about you. I hope you know that a multitude of prayers go out for you each day, you have the strength of SDCH lifting you up to the Lord so you can feel his peace. Because of you I now know how to appreciate what I have, something a day in school could never teach me.(unless I was in your class as we prayed to thank God for erasers and fingers and so on.)
I’ll be praying for you, love Sam
March 9, 2007 at 7:27 pm
Vanessa Buma
Hey, I was sitting by my computer trying to figure out how to right a comment (i dont know a thing about computer), i finally found out lol. Anyway i just wanted u to know that I am praying for you, Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall, that is one of my favourite quotes because it applies to what i am going through too
March 9, 2007 at 7:49 pm
Sherri deGraaf
I was thinking of you today as I passed your church on my way home. The sun was shining and I thought of how nice it would be with the longer days, warmer weather, and the new beginnings that come with spring. I was also praying that Marisa’s results would be what you were hoping for. Cancer is so terrible. Continue to be strong.
Sherri
March 9, 2007 at 8:02 pm
Bethany Veldmeyer
Keeping you in our prayers, and hoping that things will take a turn for the better in the near future.
Love from Bethany
March 9, 2007 at 8:08 pm
Carl Vanderstoep
Always in our prayers.
Doreen, Carl, Ariana, Victoria, Andre
March 9, 2007 at 10:14 pm
Nate and Marcelle Farr
I’m at a complete loss for fancy words of comfort but wanted to say that we feel deeply saddened by the latest news and that we’re continuing to remember your family before the Lord. He is the God of all comfort… hope that comfort is nearly *tangible* as you trek along.
Take courage… and be *en*couraged that your faithful example in suffering helps this little family remember to “take courage,” too.
Marcelle and Nathan Farr
March 9, 2007 at 10:30 pm
Nicole Baarda
Keeping you all in our prayers, as always. Hearing the CT results made our hearts break for each of you. May God continue to hold you very close in His arms.
Nicole & Steve Baarda and kids (Justin, Cameron, Adrienne, Dylan, Hailey)
March 9, 2007 at 10:57 pm
Alaina Visser
Hey
I read your whole blog today and it reminded me of a devotional type video I saw once. You may have seen it because I think the series is by a musical group – apparently both of your forte? Anyway, it was from NUUMA I believe and told the story of a father carrying his child through a forest in the pouring rain. They relate this to Psalm 34:17-18 which say “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” They also give this comment: At the hardest times in your life, God holds you close and whispers, “I love you buddy, we’re gonna get through this.”
I pray that your spirit is never crushed and that God will give you all the strength that you need during this time.
Love, Alaina
March 9, 2007 at 11:04 pm
Fred and Helen Reitsma
We hope it’s comforting to know that many, many people are praying for you today, and that the Lord hears every single one of those prayers. We’ll keep on praying for you!
Fred and Helen
March 9, 2007 at 11:58 pm
Joanne Guetter
Dear Marisa and Mendelt
As I write this in the middle of the night I am praying that your home is quiet and everyone is sleeping peacefully and that when the morning comes you will experience the hope written about in
Lamentations 3: 21 – 24.
Yet I still dare to hope when I remember this:
The faithful love of the Lord never ends! His mercies never cease.
Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each morning.
I say to myself,”the Lord is my inheritance; therefore, I will hope in him!”
Hold on to the One who knew you and loved you before you were born – and who loves you and walks each step with you now.
peace and love,
Joanne
March 10, 2007 at 12:06 am
Grace and Norm
You never walk alone . . we continue to pray for peace for you and a huge measure of God’s grace, for smiles, for joy in disappointment, for strength, for both of you and for your children . . with love from Grace and Norm
March 10, 2007 at 12:22 am
Corrie Vermeer
Marisa & Mendelt
I have been reading your blog regularly and I just wanted to let you know that my family has been praying for you and your family daily. We will continue praying for you as you battle against this awful disease. May God give you the strength you need to win this fight.
Terry& Corrie Vermeer & family
March 10, 2007 at 7:20 am
Angela Pavao (nee Kiers)
I cannot imagine what you must be going through, but your blog is truely inspirational. Your love for eachother, your kids and your trust and faith in God is surely evident. You are all in my prayers for continued strength and hope, and a miracle.
Angela
March 10, 2007 at 8:50 am
Kim & Rick Schenk
Dear Mendelt, Marisa and children,
Praying for that peace that passes all understanding even through these dark days.
Praying for grace to trust in your Heavenly Father that He WILL do all for your good.
We rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep because like the multitudes praying on your behalf, we are all part of one body and we are all connected by our common love for Christ and you.
Keep fighting!!! Someday there will be no more tears and no more sickness…
Love in Him,
Rick, Kim, Amber, Taylor, Levi and David
March 10, 2007 at 9:09 am
Anita Lubbers
Remember what I had told you when this whole journey began? “Your Father is a God of individuals, you are too valuable for a cancer statistic to dictate the outcome of God’s detailed plan for your lives. ” Those are the words of a very wise friend of mine and I remind myself of this often. You Marisa are not a cancer statistic, but God’s very OWN special child.
Love Anita
March 10, 2007 at 9:13 am
Michelle Prinzen (Eggink)
Marisa and family,
My heart aches for you as you take this journey. May God uplift you all as you travel down this road! My mom was just diagnosed with kidney cancer, and a friend said that God does not give us more than we can handle. May God give you the strength and courage you need to get through each day. Rest in Him! I will continue to hold you in my prayers.
God bless,
Michelle
March 10, 2007 at 9:30 am
Jeff and Erika Bakker
Mendelt and Marisa,
It is difficult to know what to say in these moments. We continue to check the website daily – wherever we are – sometimes, me when I am on business trips and Erika at home. And wherever, we find ourselves, we are upholding you in our prayers.
Take strength in God’s promise that he is loving, faithful and unchanging. Know that God has plan A and plan B incorporated into His plan.
Take Strength,
Jeff and Erika
March 10, 2007 at 10:53 am
Kristen and Jason
We are upholding you in our daily prayers! May you continue to have strength, courage and peace in the days ahead. May the God of all peace wrap His loving arms around you!
With love and prayers,
Kristen and Jason and family
March 10, 2007 at 11:51 am
Eckersleys
Hi Mendelt & Marisa,
Just wanting you to know that we are continuing to pray.
I think you are right about the Psalms – they say “this sucks” better than anything else. We’re going to pray that we will soon receive an update that will lead to Psalms that say “this is awesome!” better than anything else.
The Eckersleys
March 10, 2007 at 1:24 pm
Daphne and Tim Vaandering
Dear Marisa and Mendelt:
Remain holding on to the anchor of HOPE!!
Praying continually for you!
Love
the Vaanderings
March 10, 2007 at 1:31 pm
Hank and Michelle
2 Thess 2:16&17
“May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.”
2Thess 3:5
“May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance.”
We are cyring out with you and for you. Praying for the perseverance only Jesus Christ can provide. May He be closer than ever for you and your children.
We love you dearly.
Hank and Michelle
March 10, 2007 at 2:03 pm
Paula and Darren
Dear Mendelt and Marisa,
I read the news about the CT scan results and my heart ached for you. I started to ask God why and a Bible verse popped into my head. This rarely happens to me, so I thought that I should share it with you.
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest”. Matthew 28:11
Our prayer for you is that you will be able to share the burdens of grief, disappointment, anger, and fear with Him who suffered for us and find rest…rest that will strengthen you to continue the battle for Marisa’s healing.
We can’t know the depth of your pain. Know that we join with the community of brothers and sisters in Christ encircling you.
We love you and we will pray.
Love Paula, Darren, and Micah
March 10, 2007 at 2:28 pm
Annette and Rob Schreuders
Dear Marisa and Mendelt,
There are no words, just deep sadness with you.
But….
TAKE COURAGE TAKE COURAGE TAKE COURAGE
March 10, 2007 at 2:30 pm
Annette and Rob Schreuders
Hey, even though I have no words, I wasn’t finished writing. 🙂
“Hear our prayers, Oh, Lord,
Hear our prayers, Oh, Lord,
Incline Thine ear to us,
And grant us your peace. Amen”
Love and prayers,
Annette and Rob
Steph and Michael too
March 10, 2007 at 2:49 pm
Hannah Kikkert
Hi Hoekstra family,
I’m in Mr. Hoekstra’s music class and choir. I can not begin to imagine what you are going though right now. But I will pray of peace to overwhelm you and your family. I have never gone though as much pain that you are going though, but I have found comfort in these words. I hope they will to.
Be strong and couragous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9
God Bless.
Hannah Kikkert
March 10, 2007 at 2:58 pm
Jan Gerzinus and Margreet
Dear Mendelt and Marisa,
Unbelievable… This is not what we, with you, hoped for. There are no words for this.
So all we want to say to you is: hold on. You are in our thoughts.
Love, Jan Gerzinus and Margreet
March 10, 2007 at 4:10 pm
Margaret Van der Meulen (Van der Veen)
Wow…I am at a loss with the results of the recent CT scan. My husband and I continue to hold you and your family in our prayers. If we can help out in any way, please let us know.
Margaret, Alex and Jacob Van der Meulen
March 10, 2007 at 4:10 pm
Rusty and Leona
Marisa, we certainly pray that this will be a somewhat less harsh form of treatment (for you all)
Perseverance and Endurance
Peace and Love
Leona and Rusty
March 10, 2007 at 5:12 pm
Rebecca Stieva
Mr. Hoeksta and Marisa,
I’m glad what I told you was able to help you. I can not imagine the pain the results from the CT scan have caused you. Still praying for you day and night.
Love,
Rebecca Stieva
March 10, 2007 at 5:18 pm
yvonne lammers
Hi Marisa! I have been reading your blog almost daily,and I’m sorry it has taken me so long to write to you. I was deeply saddened to hear the test results. Please know that all this time you have been in my thoughts and prayers and that Darren and I are praying for healing, strength, and peace for you, Mendelt, and the children.
Much love and hope, Yvonne, Darren, Joelle and Leah
March 10, 2007 at 5:52 pm
gary
M&M
when I signed on 3 posts – 24 hours later 77 posts…. a community of faith who cherish each of you very much…
We share in your grief and disappointment. It is very daunting. And yet I know – we know – God loves you (even though the questions keep on bouncing off the walls and each other) – God loves you (even when we don’t “get it” and never will) – God loves you (when fear paralyzes our forward steps) – God loves you.
May this refrain – God loves you – whisper to you throughout this time together.
we hurt with you GT
March 10, 2007 at 6:20 pm
Brandy DeVries
Mendelt and Marisa,
My heart goes out to you and your family. The recent update was a definite blow. When I read your blog and see the numbers in the comments rise I am taken back by the amount of people who care. You are truly loved by those who know you, but even by those who don’t. I am one of them. Your faith is an inspiration to me, thank you. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Brandy & Duane DeVries
March 10, 2007 at 6:22 pm
Paul and Jessica Vanden Brink
Like everyone else, our hearts break for you. God is great, there is no doubt…but his ways are sometimes quite inscrutable. In this time, we will continue to pray and pray and pray again that his love will be crystal clear at this time.
With love, Paul and Jessica Vanden Brink
March 10, 2007 at 6:49 pm
Michelle Eve
You two have been battling so valiantly, for nearly 3 months now… you are so, so brave… I *hope* you do not feel defeated. But it would be understandable if you do.
Maybe somebody already noted this text, I haven’t read ALL the comments (what a rally of responses!). Let it be your resolve that, while grieving this news, you are able to stand with St. Paul and be comforted in saying,
8We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed…. 16Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. 17For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. 18So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2Cor.4
Continually praying for you,
me. XOXO
Matthew 14:14
When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had *compassion* on them and healed their sick.
March 10, 2007 at 7:36 pm
Laura DeHaan
Mendelt and Marisa
Many, many prayers and moments where thoughts of you are on my heart and another prayer needs to be sent.
Praying for peace, for renewed strength, for rest, for special times with eachother and your kids.
Thankyou for sharing, even when it’s painful.
Thankyou for reminding all of us to enjoy the little things in life.
Lately, I’ve been remembering, Marisa, a morning at WCS, as a supply teacher sitting in on Christmas program rehearsal, and the way that the gym was filled with such inspirational music led by yourself and your father in law. It was a blessing. Take time to keep making music.
Laura
March 10, 2007 at 8:46 pm
Jess & Tim Brand
You remain in our prayers. In a time like this it’s hard to remember that God is love. But I think what God does best is LOVE. I pray that you may continue to experience that love, as expressed by this community and in each other. Strength to you and your family.
Jess & Tim Brand
March 10, 2007 at 9:07 pm
Geraldine Korvemaker
Dear Marisa and Mendelt,
Our hearts ache with you and we continually bring you before Almighty God. May His peace fill you, that peace which passes all understanding. We have a great God and He can do great things! Praying for you continually,
love Geraldine K.
March 10, 2007 at 9:49 pm
James and Jen Van Gurp
Dear Mendelt and Marissa,
May the the grace of our heavenly Father be with you and give you what ever you need to have the peace and confidence that nothing can seperate you from the love of Christ.
You are in our thoughts and prayers daily.
Love,
James and Jen Van Gurp and Family
We hope that this verse can give you some comfort and peace.
“My grace is suffcient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” 2 Corinthians 12:8-10
March 11, 2007 at 12:18 am
Chris and Cheri
we’ve been away for a few days and just read the news. It is hard to find reason to smile in the face of this adversity, but this blog is certainly one. We join this entire community, wrap our arms around you and continue to pray for everything you need at this time. peace and love.
March 11, 2007 at 8:08 am
Liz Schouwstra
Hi Mendelt and Marissa,
I just saw your blog last night and was overwhelmed. Our heart goes out to you at this time as you anticipate the next few months with a more aggressive course of treatment. We know the Lord is with you and is giving you an amazing grace.
I am reading a book called, “The Attributes of God” and I just wanted to share a paragraph with you:
“Herein is solid comfort. Human nature cannot be relied upon; but god can! However unstable I may be, however fickle my friends may prove, God changes not. If He varied as we do, if He willed one thing today and another tomorrow, if He were controlled by caprice, who could confide in Him? But, all praise to His glorious name, He is ever the same. His purpose is fixed, His will is stable, His word is sure. Here then is a rock on which we many fix our feet, while the mighty torrent is sweeping away everything around us. The permanence of God’s character guarantees the fulfillment of His promises: ‘For the mountains shall depart, and the hills be removed; but My kindness shall not depart from thee, neither shall the covenant of My peace be removed, saith the Lord that hath mercy on thee.'”
Prayers are being lifted up for you people from many places – that’s the beauty of the Chrisitan community.
May the Lord give you a blessed Lord’s day.
Love and prayers,
Brian, Liz and family
March 11, 2007 at 9:42 am
Jo Vandermey
Our family has been one of those “lurkers”….but our prayers have been going out for you and your family. When we think of you and your family we see smiles, kindness and love. Mendelt has been an inspiration to our children as a teacher,parent, choir director and person. May the prayers of the SDCH parents and kids that I hear about (and those I don’t up lift you), surround you and carry you. Life sometimes really sucks and as I heard at SDCH on Friday and have read on your blog tears form in my eyes. This cancer road is one that is to familiar to us these days…
No words of wisdom.. just know that from reading all these comments on your site if you are loved this much by people here and now how much greater is God’s love for you.
Gods peace
Jo, Jake Stephen, Anne and Brian Vandermey
March 11, 2007 at 11:52 am
Jim and Laura Huurman
Mendelt and Marisa, and children:
May God continue to uphold you all as you go down another road of treatment. Our prayers are continually go up for you and all of your family as you deal with this day to day.
Your faith is so strong and the bond of your family is also strong, and may you continue to lean on them for support, as well as our Heavenly Father.
Christian love,
Jim, Laura, Ryan, Marisa and Sarah Huurman
(members of Trinity CRC – St. Catharines)
March 11, 2007 at 1:11 pm
Mark & Laura Bassie
Hope this makes it on in time!
Prayer gathering for Marisa on Tuesday, March 13th from 11am to 2pm at Fruitland CRC. Nursery will be open. May need one or two more volunteers yet. Let’s gather together to intercede for Marisa as she receives her chemo treatment. We are hoping to do this once every three weeks coinciding with her treatment.
In Christ,
Laura
March 11, 2007 at 1:23 pm
clonic
Praying for you to fall on Him, and for Marissa’s complete recovery.
March 11, 2007 at 1:55 pm
Phil Nywening
This is bitter news. Let God know what is on your heart. He has a history of using brokenness to bring glory, may He also bring you strength and joy through your sorrow.
March 11, 2007 at 2:30 pm
Misty Frederick
Hello,
I am a stranger to you, but not to cancer. I am a survivor since 1998 and understand some of the battles you are now fighting. I stumbled across your blog as I was trying to find some words of encouragement for a friend who is watching many of her relatives facing cancer head-on.
I am praying for you and your family and hope the right chemo can put a halt to the progression of this disease.
All the best to you…
Misty
March 11, 2007 at 3:53 pm
Kim Reitsma- VanHaitsma
I read about your CT results already on Thursday when there were no comments written. To go back today and see alll the responses was such a good thing. I feared I couldn’t write anythng remotely hopeful in my disappointment and sadness… I called my parents immediiately (something I like to do when I need comfort and to feel closer to everyone over there), and together we tried to llift each other up to keep praying! It’s amazing how many times I have remembered the blog that Mendalt wrote a few weeks ago… how Jesus kept praying, even though he knew he was going to the cross. We just can’t stop, and we won’t. We love you, and are praying harder and more fervently than ever.
Kim
March 11, 2007 at 4:18 pm
Tracey Wiersma
Reading some of these comments, I feel as though mine won’t be different from the one beside it. They all say get well soon, praying for you, and it all starts to get repetitive but I want you to know I really do pray for you, marisa I have never met you, but I know that you need alot of prayer. I have heard many storys about you and your kids, and especially how strong you are. I know that you can make it through no matter what bad news you may get.
Truly praying for you
Tracey Wiersma
March 11, 2007 at 5:13 pm
Oom Henk en Tante Derna
Dear Marisa and family,
Hardly bareable.
Hoping you still find courage and strenght.
Daily in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Oom Henk en Tante Derna and kids
March 11, 2007 at 5:34 pm
Carrie
We were very sorry to hear that the CT results were not what you expected and pray that Plan B will lead to more positive outcomes. Praying for you, Mike and Carrie 🙂
March 11, 2007 at 5:39 pm
Mike and Karen Carmody
I haven’t commented yet because I have no idea what to say. I’m angry and sad and frustrated . . . but will continue to pray.
Love you lots.
Karen
March 11, 2007 at 6:05 pm
Janis and George
Ahhh…not the news you wanted…..why???? Why does God do this? We don’t know ….why to some like you Marisa who is so nice, wonderful, sweet, talented, great mom, awesome wife (I don’t really even know you….but i’ve heard many wonderful things 🙂 I’m sure these are the questions that are being asked. We don’t know why Jesus sends us storms, some worse then others……continue to seek shelter in Him. Thanks for sharing your personal battle with us….because you have a army praying for you! Never forget that…..Seriously there are thousands of prayers being lifted up for you and your family every day! Take comfort. Stay strong.
Love George and Janis Thies
March 11, 2007 at 6:31 pm
Janis and George
I was just thinking after i posted my last comment….you have thousands of people praying for you and lifting you up before Him. That is just awesome when you really think about it….but.. What about all those people dealing with the same awful diesease that are not in a community of believers…..can’t imagine. What a blessing it is to be apart of this community.
Blessings.
March 11, 2007 at 6:58 pm
Marcia (Elgersma) Mantel
Marisa and Mendelt
I have been reading your blog almost daily for quite some time. Your story, your courage, your pain, and your love for each other and our God have moved me and touched me. I have wanted to write something, but the words I didn’t know how to write have been raised to God in prayer in the meantime.
Still, I want to respond somehow.
There is much I don’t remember while as a child I watched my mother struggle with cancer. One image has always remained with me, however. Friends of our family gave us a wooden sculpture of a large hand cupped around a child sitting on the palm of that hand. As a child, I remember thinking that that big hand reminded me of my Daddy’s. It turns out that I wasn’t far off. On that piece was also carved Isaiah 49:16: “See I have engraved you on the palms of my hands.”
I’ve been thinking of that lately as I read your blog –this God of ours who “measures the waters in the hollows of His hands”(Isaiah 40:12) and whose hands, incredibly, also laid the very foundation of the earth (Isaiah 48:13). Those powerful, infinite hands -also infinitely mother-gentle. Jesus entrusted and committed nothing less than Himself, His Spirit, into the Father’s hands in His last moments before His death.
Big enough to measure oceans or hold His beloved children
Powerful enough to make worlds or unmake cancer
Gentle enough to extend eternal comfort to His anguished Son or to wipe away tears, with infinite love
May you find strength and comfort as the children engraved there on the palms of those amazing hands.
Please know also that 2 more hands are lifted to the Father’s on your behalf.
Marcia (Elgersma) Mantel
(I was in your year at Redeemer)
March 11, 2007 at 9:05 pm
scott and val
mendelt and marisa
it is so hard to know what to write to you both. scott has done the other “comments” because i couldn’t think of what to write to you that wouldn’t sound trite or ridiculous or non-inspirational coming from someone who has a fairly “smooth sailing” life (presently anyways).
But enough of that mindset.
I just want you both to know that i love you both and i think of you multiple times on everday and am constantly presenting you and your kids before God in prayer. Our small group prays for you, our prayer ministry team prays for you, our women’s group prays for you, and our extended family prays for you. It is amazing to think of all the prayer done daily on your behalf. God has truly blessed you with an awsome amount of love and support. It is so unbelievable. I can see why this display of love would encourage you and touch your hearts; it does mine.
Allow the love that God is showing you through all of these people to penetrate your hearts and reveal His faithfulness, His compassion, and His
deep feelings towards you.
Mendelt, thank you for faithfully keeping us up to date. Reading your postings touches my heart and moves me into diligent prayer.
I pray that you both,amidst the pain, will find joy in each day.
Love, val
March 11, 2007 at 9:24 pm
Cheryl Tigchelaar
Marisa,
I have just learned about your battle, and I was floored. We at First Hamilton CRC are in the second week of a sermon series on suffering, and the first example of a situation touching some people in our congregation was yours and Mendelt’s – then our pastor went on to preach out of the book of Job. I’ve just been reading through your blog, and I’m humbled to see your resolve to fight the right enemy. Let me not pass up this opportunity to let you know just how often you are on my mental screen, as a remarkable role model of wisdom, enthusiasm, organization and love of teaching. I had no idea how much I would learn from spending several months as a teaching assistant in your Gr. 5 classroom at Dundas Calvin, and will always remember with gratitude the gentle firmness you bring to a classroom. Your posture has influenced my teaching (can’t believe it, but I’m in my fifth year with the Halton DSB, and teaching music now for the first time), and each week I try to settle myself on a Thursday to plan for the next week…because I learned that from you. I also remember with a smile the calm way in which, once you were assured that another adult was in the gym, you sauntered smiling from the gym one day with blood gushing from your forehead after a high jump upright beaned you right in the head. “I’m fine,” you insisted, as we instructed a full class to sit on the floor. I spent the next 10 minutes comforting various sobbing children who believed it was their fault for assaulting you, while you went off to slap on some bandages. I know you’re tough.
Praying,
Cheryl Tigchelaar
March 12, 2007 at 7:14 am
Marlene Bergsma
My prayer: Lord have mercy. Christ have mercy.
Marisa and Mendelt and children, you are so loved — by the family of God but even more by your Creator, Redeemer and Sustainer. May you cling to that knowledge and may you find joy and strength and comfort each day.
Love Marlene
March 12, 2007 at 10:40 am
Cam and Helen Beldman.
When trouble comes,
as it does to us all
God is so great
and we are so small-
But there is nothing
that we need know
if we have faith
that wherever we go
God will be waiting
to help us bear
our pain and sorrow,
our suffering and care-
For no pain or suffering
is ever to much
to yield itself
to God’s merciful touch!
Dear Father in heaven,
touch their lives with your tender care.
let them know that you are always there.
Give them a peace that is full and everlasting.
Give them patience to know that all things happen
on your time, by your will.
God cries when we cry. God hurts when we hurt.
God listens when we call on him.
Amen
March 12, 2007 at 6:37 pm
Wendy Tuninga
Dear Marisa and Mendelt,
I just wanted to let you know that there are a lot of people in the world praying and riding the wave with you. I’ve been reading your blog and praying for you and your family daily, multiple times a day, everytime I turn around really. My heart goes out to you and your family. I’ve met you a few times (baseball and through Sara & Mike Flikkema, i’m Sandy Szcepanowski’s cousin). I know you from a distance but love you right next to my heart. Fight the fight, you have an army of people behind you.
Wendy
March 12, 2007 at 8:10 pm
Derek and Heather
Marisa and Mendelt we are so sad about this news. We are continuing to pray and we are carrying you and your family in our hearts and minds.
with love from Derek and Heather and family
March 12, 2007 at 8:42 pm
Dave and Marlene
Dear Marisa and Mendelt,
I heard this song and thought of you:
I was sure by now
That You would have reached down
And wiped our tears away
Stepped in and saved the day
But once again, I say ‘Amen’,
and its still raining.
As the thunder rolls
I barely hear You whisper through the rain
“I’m with you”
And as Your mercy falls
I raise my hands and praise the God who gives
and takes away.
I’ll praise You in this storm
And I will lift my hands
For You are who You are
No matter where I am
Every tear I’ve cried
You hold in your hand
You never left my side
And though my heart is torn
I will praise you in this storm
I remember when
I stumbled in the wind
You heard my cry
You raised me up again
My strength is almost gone
How can I carry on
If I can’t find you?
I lift my eyes unto the hills
Where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord
The Maker of Heaven and Earth.
(Casting Crowns – Praise You In This Storm)
Praying God will give peace and courage,
and take away sickness and despair,
and that you will hear God’s voice clearer than a whisper through the rain,
Love, Dave and Marlene.
March 12, 2007 at 9:51 pm
Andy Vanderveen
Dear Marisa and Mendelt
You are in our prayers and thoughts every day,
God is allmighty and with him every thing is possible.
May he lift you up every day and give you a really big measure of his Grace and Peace and Love.
With love
Andy and Alice Vanderveen
March 13, 2007 at 6:03 am
Nel
God Bless You!
March 13, 2007 at 8:13 am
sheri
You’re family is in our thoughts and prayers.
March 13, 2007 at 8:14 am
Corrie
Dear Mendelt & Marisa: Difficult news to digest. Difficult to understand the ways of the Lord. Yet we know He is holding your hand along this journey. May you feel His arms of love around you. My prayers continue to surround you.
“The peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Phil. 4:7
cJz
March 13, 2007 at 9:05 am
David and Julie Kingma
Marisa and Mendelt,
Imagining what the past few days has felt like for you seems nearly impossible – but we’re trying. As you continue to suffer, and as a community of believers we continue to intercede for healing on your behalf, may you recieve strength as you grow deeper in relationship with our King; the great Healer.
Strength to you both,
David and Family
March 13, 2007 at 11:35 am
Clarissa
Sending prayers & wishing you strength, healing and much peace. Amen.
March 13, 2007 at 1:44 pm
Alison Dmytryshyn-Daniels
Mendelt and Marisa,
I am so sad to hear the news of the Catscan, but more fired up than ever in prayer for you! I immediately thought of Job when i heard the news, that when he thought it couldnt get any worse, more bad came. But, the Spirit reminded me that OUR GOD was faithful with Job, and HE IS FAITHFUL STILL! Keep heart my sister and brother. You are in our prayers non-stop, and the confidence of complete healing and restoration has not faded!
We continue to pray, not only thanking the Lord for your healing that is already done in the Spirit, but for continued strength for Mendelt, your parents and sisters. We pray for your children that throughout this they will see God’s love and grace carry mommy, and will praise him during this time and on the other side of it.
May our God keep you in His mighty hand!
p.s. you look beautiful!
March 13, 2007 at 2:33 pm
Elly
Hello, a friend of mine told me about your story. I am so sorry you are facing this. I have experienced similar through my son’s battle with cancer. He had Hepatoblastoma Stage 4…this is liver cancer with mestasis to the lungs. He went through 18 rounds of chemo and 4 surgeries. (He relapsed several times. His original protical called for 6 rounds of chemo and one surgery.) He was diagnosed at 20 months of age with a tumour in his liver measuring about 6 x 10cm. Pretty large for such a small little guy. In the end, at age 3 1/2 we were told they had no more viable treatment options and would need to set up hospice care – well thankfully we have a master physician and his Name is Jesus. Only accept God’s diagnosis of your health and look to the scriputres to read what He says. My son is 8 1/2 now. Chemo did do a number on many things but God has proven Himself faithful over and over again and continues to do miracles in our son’s life even now touching everything from his kidneys and his heart which were damaged from chemo. If you did not see the scars and I did not tell you you would never know my son ever had cancer. God heals and He restores. He turns the tears to joy and all things do work together for good. Please let me know if there is anyway I can help or be of encouragement to you. Sometimes my best encouragers were my internet/email friends who I never met. Never Ever Give-up – God is so good. May God Bless, Keep, Protect, Strentghen and pour His Love all over you, your family and those you love.
March 13, 2007 at 4:15 pm
Jill (Jeltje) Vanderveen
Hey there Marisa and Mendelt
Am so sad and hurt for you having to go through this dis ease of cancer.
Am so amazed (have just read 89 messages to you) at the love and prayers that are going out to you. I love you guys and God loves you so dearly, so dearly does God love you. I wish you Light and Love that is the Holy Spirit to surround you, protect you and embrace you. You are in my prayer and meditation every night. Strength and courage to you Marisa, Mendelt and your families, especially your parents. Much God Healing LOVE to you. Love you guys.
Jill
March 13, 2007 at 6:02 pm
Shirley Hiemstra
Stay strong, stay positive! Our prayer is that the Lord will bless you with the strength you need, keep you close to Him, and cause His face to shine upon you in these difficult days. We lift you up daily and will continue to keep you in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers.
Tonight I will be training for Dragon Boat racing with 60 other women, all Breat cancer survivors, some from recurrances; to stay strong and beat this “dragon” we have all faced. It is my fervent prayer that you will do the same!!
March 13, 2007 at 6:46 pm
Cynthia Chhina
Mendelt, Marissa, and beautiful children…
I think of you so often throughout each day, knowing that your lives are in chaos and praying for healing on your behalf. My children, parents and siblings pray for you also, as do all the people who post on this blog and the many many more who contact you in a less public way. My heart wants to carry this burden with you and yet I know that the suffering is yours, as are the moments of beautiful grace, but you are never alone either, with so many loving frineds and family and the grace of God and his angels holding you up.
Prayers and blessings, Love Cynthia
March 13, 2007 at 7:17 pm
Jennifer (Geerts) Brennan
A song that my daughter (age 3) is learning right now seems appropriate:
My God is so BIG
so STRONG and so MIGHTY
there’s nothing my God can not do!
The mountains are His
The rivers are His
The stars are His handiwork too.
My God is so BIG
so STRONG and so MIGHTY
there’s nothing my God can not do!
Praying fervently.
March 14, 2007 at 7:49 am
Danyael X
I’m not going to give any words on God since most other people her has already one that.
I will say this though,
Fight the cancer!
Be strong at heart!
Dont ever give up!
When the times look dark remember that you are loved and that you have the support of people all over the world!
Here’s to you, Beating the Cancer!
Chris
Sweden
March 14, 2007 at 12:06 pm
Jacqueline De Boer
I really don’t know what to say.
I’m still praying.
Love Jacqueline
March 14, 2007 at 7:21 pm
Annette Regnerus
Hey guys,
We were so sorry to hear about the battle you are currently waging, but after reading your blog we are encouraged by the faith you have. Why is it that, when your life goes smoothly, that type of faith does not show itself? I am sure that you are a strong witness to doctors, nurses and fellow patients when you speak of the hope that you have! May you remain strong in this! I know that our earthly minds do not see how this will be resolved, but do not forget that you have a Heavenly Father who already knows the plans he has for! Stay strong!
Annette
March 14, 2007 at 10:19 pm
Tim and Sandra
Dear Marisa,
You are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers constantly. When you are feeling weak, He is strong and will hold you up. God is there with you Marisa. And I see him right here in the zillions of hands typing to you and praying with their whole strength…pummeling his throne to ask for your healing. May you be bouyed up on our prayers and in his gentle hands. You are not alone. We love you,
Sandra and Tim.
March 15, 2007 at 4:16 pm
Michelle Eve
A week has passed since your last post — the stillness of the blog is disquieting, unsettling, sorrowful… and REAL. **God Bless You** for your candour.
Sorrowful and troubled, He prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.”
Again He said, “My Father, if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it, may your will be done.”
And then he prayed a third time, saying the same thing.
The repetition hits home. What an agonizing undertaking, even for our almighty Lord, to have such a discourse with the Father. It hit me hard: a similar showdown has been thrust upon you, Marisa.
It breaks my heart that I do not *know* the upheaval and disarray caused by such a battle of the heart & mind. I cannot come alongside you and say, “I’ve been there.”
Thank God, there is One who has.
As you yourself often say,
Peace and Love to you…
Continually praying for His Divine intervention,
me. XOXO
March 15, 2007 at 6:35 pm
Bas en Hinke
Dear M&M,
We read the news last week and are still devastated…
I cannot find any words to say and cannot even imagine how tough this is for you both.
We love you so much,
Hinke and Bas
March 16, 2007 at 10:13 pm
Rose and Bob Schulenberg
Dear Marisa and Mendalt,
Everything has been said already, but we want you to know that we are joining our prayers with all those who are already praying for you…prayer is so powerful! Marisa, we wish you so much courage and strength! May God bless you all!
March 22, 2007 at 11:46 am
DORENE
Dear Mendeldt and Marissa;
It is in our deepest hour of need we will most feel Gods presence. Let Him hold you tight.
Praying for you always,Dorene
March 23, 2007 at 8:34 pm
Charlene Gritter
Dear Marissa and Mendalt
You are in my prayers and thoughts often. May the Lord guide you in the pathway of peace and may He give you strength and courage to endure this trail.
I do not personally know you but am SO encouraged of the genuine love you have for each other and the Lord. My heart sinks each time I read your updates. Thanks so much for sharing. May God Bless you and your family!
In Christian Love, Char
March 28, 2007 at 8:49 am
Donny
This was a very good blog entry outlining some of the most important things in life. That being said, I’m off for my morning 6 mile jog. During that time I always pray. I’m a person who doesn’t know either of you but I’ll pray for Marisa.
April 1, 2007 at 7:42 pm
Nicholas C
God shall wipe all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death,
nor crying, nether shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away.
-Revelation 21:4
Dear: Marisa and Mr. Hoekstra
I’d like you both to know that I heard a quote a while back and here it is
“but through your life there will be hardships that you must face but those hardships will only help you and bring you closer the the Heavenly Savior.” Therefore to me that means that both of you must walk your life with God and if you do that then You’ll never walk alone.
God be with both of you in this hard time.
We’re praying for both of you.
In Christ
Nicholas C